Air Force man kills girl friend for sleeping with civilian boy friend

Air Force man kills girl friend for sleeping with civilian boy friend

TRAGEDY struck today at Nigeria Aircraft Base in Makurdi when an Airforce man ACM, Kalu B.A early Sunday morning shot dead his girlfriend, Airforce Woman ACW Oladipupo S. A., for allegedly sleeping with another man at his quarters.

Sources told Nigerian Tribune that the incident happened around 6 a.m. on Sunday when the ACM who closed from work was said to have gone to her official residence and found her with a civilian boyfriend.

It was gathered that as soon as the ACM discovered this, he brought out his service gun and shot the girlfriend and also attempted to shoot the civilian boyfriend when the bullet got hooked.

The man was able to escape and he raised the alarm which drew the attention of neighbours to the incident.

According to the command PRO, “an Air Force man, Kalu B.A was at 0606hrs this morning (Sunday) arrested and detained  at Air Force provost squadron.

“When the incident happened the Air force Woman was rushed to MAF Base hospital and later referred to Benue State University Teaching hospital in Makurdi where she died.

“Further investigation is ongoing to ascertain what really happened and the media will be informed,” he concluded.

How to have a healthy relationship – Mistakes to avoid as a Christian

Our awkwardness about this topic is one reason single Christians make so many relationship blunders—and why many marriages start out on the wrong foot. You won’t hear much teaching about dating in most churches. It’s like we’re afraid to touch the subject—so people just feel their way in the dark and figure out romance on their own.
Here are top 10 mistakes Christians make while dating

1. Not developing healthy friendships with the opposite sex. Oftentimes too much pressure is placed on Christian singles to pair up, especially if they are attending a Bible college with a reputation for being a wedding factory. And in that pressure cooker it’s difficult for guys and girls to enjoy non-romantic friendships. Relax and make friends, and don’t view every opposite-sex friend as a potential marriage partner.

2. Letting other people control your relationship. Church friends usually mean well, but some people don’t know how to stay out of other people’s business. They will engage in what I call “prophetic meddling” by dropping hints, manipulating you to go out with someone or pushing you to marry someone you don’t even want to be with. And while the gift of prophecy is valuable, you should never let personal prophecies steer your decisions about marriage. Let God personally guide you in this very personal area of life.

3. Lack of healthy confidence. Some guys I know are stuck in a state of spiritual limbo when it comes to their dating life. They may admire a girl from afar, but they just can’t muster up the nerve to break the ice and start a conversation. Proverbs 18:22 says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing.” If you are going to find a wife, you don’t just sit there until you are 40. Develop some healthy aggression. And while it is true that some women prefer to be pursued, remember that Ruth proposed to Boaz in the Old Testament story. Don’t be so demure that your future husband can’t even notice you.

4. Being too picky. On the flip side, some singles are waiting for the perfect human specimen to sweep them off their feet. Picky guys want a girl who could appear in the swimsuit edition of Sports Illustrated. Or, some Christian women expect to marry a spiritual giant who prays four hours a day. Be realistic. Whoever you date will have feet of clay and plenty of flaws to match your own.

5. Being desperate for a relationship. Some singles freak out when they hit age 25. They stop trusting God and begin a nail-biting search for a mate. My friend Nicole Doyley, author of The Wait, says she knows women who are so frantic about finding Prince Charming that they immediately fall for any guy who asks them out. “They should see the warning signs, but don’t,” Nicole says. “They start praying immediately if this is ‘the one’ and they quickly become blind to his faults.

6. Expecting the person you are dating to “fix” you. God wants singles to have undistracted devotion to Jesus (see 1 Cor. 7:35). Yet too often we look to other people to bring the inner fulfillment that only Christ gives. Many singles fall into the trap of finding a boyfriend or girlfriend to heal the wounds caused by childhood trauma, their parents’ divorce or their dads’ addictions. Seek healing from the Holy Spirit for those issues before you commit to a serious relationship.

7. Missionary dating. Never start a romantic relationship with a guy or girl who is not a believer. Christians who do this usually justify it with the old “I know I can change him/her” line. But the opposite happens: The unbeliever changes you—after he or she has broken your heart, compromised your morals or damaged your faith.

8. Spiritual stalking. I’ve met guys in church who drive by girls’ houses regularly, monitor their moves and troll their Facebook pages. That’s creepy. If you have to sneak around like a private detective to get a date, you need a new strategy. If a woman tells you she is not interested in going out with you, honor her request and move on. Don’t develop an unhealthy obsession. And never, never, never tell a girl: “God told me you will be my wife.” That’s manipulative and could fall under the category of sexual harassment.

9. Not discerning a spiritual predator. One single female friend of mine said she went out with a man who did a financial seminar at her church. Because the guy was invited to speak from a pulpit she assumed he was a man of character, but he tried to get her into bed with him on the first date. It became quickly obvious he was an imposter. Beware of wolves. You must walk in the Spirit if you want to protect your purity and save yourself for the right person.

10. Ignoring proper boundaries. Some Christian couples are extremely naïve about the power of a romantic bond. They don’t realize that feelings can zoom from zero to 90 miles an hour in a few seconds, and that one kiss can lead to intercourse if you don’t have your emergency brake on at all times. If you are in a dating relationship, you must know your boundaries, discuss them with your partner and commit to staying pure. Don’t be stupid. Don’t spiritualize your lust and suggest, “Let’s go to your apartment and pray.” Don’t wait until clothes come off to determine what is out of bounds.
Source: J. Lee Grady

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''We are displeased with the level of punishment Big Brother meted out on Kemen, it has tarnished his image and dignity, making Nigerians begin to see him as a perverted rapist, Most importantly, We are angry that Tboss did nothing to save Kemen from being disqualified even though she had the power to do so, if Tboss didn’t approve of what happened that night, why didn’t she say so or react immediately it happened? We are suing Big Brother for defamation of character and unlawful justice'' - Kemens Family Fumes

The King Is Back!!!

Remember Nokia 3310?  That old , rugged phone that rocked our world back in the year 2000?

Guess what?

NOKIA 3310 IS BACK!!

Nokia has unveiled a refreshed version of the renowned Nokia 3310 with some improved features & hardware. The new Nokia 3310 (2017) comes with a simple design and a near indestructible shell ; similar to the one that was launched in 2000.

Here are the new features of Nokia 3310 (2017) :

1. It has a colour display : 

The 3310 features a 2.4 inch QVGA display with a pixel density of 120 ppi. Although the screen is not as impressive as modern day smartphones , the 3310’s polarized and curved screen window makes for better readability in sunlight.

2. It has a camera :

Although not impressive , the 3310 has a 2MP back camera for taking “Simple Snaps”. The camera has an LED flash which helps when taking shots in a dark environment. Tragically for social media enthusiasts there is no front camera for selfies on the new phone

3. It DOES NOT run Android OS :

Contrary to what we all expected , the 3310 DOES NOT  run Android operating system. Instead , it runs Nokia’s Series 30+ software which is designed for feature phones. The user interface has been revamped to give a cleaner & modern look.

4. The battery can last for 1 month :

The Nokia 3310 has a Yuge HUGE battery life of 31days on standby and a whooping 22hours talk time.

5. It can access the internet :

Yes , the 3310 can access the internet but you’ld need to have a lot of patience because it uses a 2.5G connection which is very slow compared to 3.5G and 4G LTE internet.

6. Internal & External storage is available :

The 3310 has a storage capacity of just 16MB (laughs). However , there is an external SD card slot of up to 32GB for those who need more storage (Who wouldn’t? :D)

7. It has Snake Game :

The renowned Snake game is available on the 3310 , albeit a modern version which looks different from the one you know.

8. Goodbye to “Pin mouth charger” :

The new 3310 has a Micro-USB charging port which is different form the “Pin Mouth” charging port that was used in the year 2000.

 
Nokia 3310 Specifications

Display  : 2.4” QVGA with 120 ppi.Network : 2.5GSoftware : Nokia Series 30+Storage : 16MB  internal memory, expandable memory up to 32GB with microSDSIM : Dual SIM & Single SIM optionCamera : 2MP camera with flashBattery : 1200 mAh battery with Max. talk time Up to 22.1 hours & Max. standby time Up to 31 daysBluetooth  : 3.0 with SLAMMicro USB (USB 2.0),3.5 mm AV connectorFM radio, MP3 player

 
The new 3310 has a price tag of $52. Consider the dollar exchange rate ,clearance bribe shipping fee , and other market forces ; then expect the price in Nigeria to be above #30,000.

(Nokia 3310 is currently not available in Nigeria. We will update this post once we spot it on any online / offline store)

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Now over to you. Will you buy the new Nokia 3310 (2017) ? Let’s have your comments!